This question or other forms of it come into many conversations about job search and networking activities.

"Do I have to...?" and "I don't wanna ..." are then followed by:

• talk to people I don't know (networking).
• write a cover letter.
• send a thank you note.
• research a company or my interviewer.

You don't have to. But, if you don't, the person who did will get the interview and/or job offer.

We all learn from each other. I invite you to share your stories.

What part of the job search did you dislike/avoid the most and how did you overcome that reluctance? What didn't you want to do? Include your comments through the link below.